Sadly, weddings are often a reminder of those who are not able to attend. As wedding planners, we are often asked about ideas - how can we honor our loved ones? Whether it be a parent, grandparent, or other close family member who has passed, there are many f thoughtful ways to honor ones you’re thinking of and missing on your wedding day.

Save a Seat for Your Loved One

We’ve had many couples choose to reserve a seat for their loved one, even though they’re not there in person. Some choose to put candles on the chair, signs recognizing who is missing, or as in the wedding above - a flower.

Include Loved Ones In Your Ceremony

The most comment way we’ve had folks include those who have passed is to include them in their ceremony. Often the officiant mentions them and may ask for a moment of silence. Other times their names are included in the ceremony program. But my favorite way was in the wedding above, in which the bride and the groom held a private memorial honoring departed family members prior to the ceremony. With their closest loved ones present, they carefully placed marked roses within their gorgeous DIY chuppah.

Honor Them Through your Taste Buds

We’ve seen many couples make thoughtful cuisine choices as a nod to their loved ones. My favorite was the above wedding that featured a Polish cookie table in honor of her Grandmother.

Carry Them With You

Many brides opt to include small charms or photos within their bouquets as a way to carry their dearly departed with them, and keep them close always. I adore this option - it’s such a meaningful and beautiful way to help folks feel less alone and feel as though their family is with them - always.

Let Photos Do the talking

The most common way is to include photographs of those who have passed as a way to remember and honor them. Lots of folks choose to use wedding photos as a way to honor love through the ages!